HOW TO BE HAPPY, RICH & ROMANTIC

 Do you want happiness ?

This simple question will always be answered with a big ‘Yes”.  Yes , all of us without exception , want to have happiness, although the idea of what constitute happiness and how it can be obtained differs from person to person.Every one of us wants happiness, and not only in each moment of our daily life : we want an unchanging, ultimate happiness that can be experienced forever.

Every one of us is trying to stop our problems and find peace. No matter where we live, what race or culture we belong to, what religion or philosophy we follow, or what language we speak, we all wish to be happy and not have problems. Truly every living being has the basic wish to experience happiness and avoid suffering.

But so often, our attempts to find happiness end up  only causing more pain. We need to understand the full potential of our mind, and we need to understand the importance of loving-kindness for our own happiness and for the happiness of the world. We need to learn how to transform every single experience  - health and sickness , wealth and poverty, living and dying  - into happiness.

Did you ever watch a child create a castle in the sand and see it happily express its satisfaction when its work had been completed ?

All of us that seek true happiness in life can learn a lesson from this child.  For here you see a human being that has found its happiness , and if you will not seek to find your own, the same way as that child , you shall forever hunger after happiness in vain.

All happiness this mortal life affords- is joy experienced through creative effort. Be it that a person will create the timeless realm of love within his soul; be it that his creativity express itself within the province of the mind; or that material things provide his will the means creatively to manifest its power.

The joy experienced in creative work alone is real happiness, and all things else you regards as such will surely, if you trust them, betray and rob you of true happiness, as much as one can find it in this life.

So the pursuit of happiness is the root motivation of all human life. Beneath our so-called wants and desires for love, comfort, wealth,power, fame, etc., lies the unchanging quality of happiness -  that all of us, without exception, seek - some consciously and most unconsciously .  However, it is imperative to recognize that there is no one absolute way to arrive at happiness - no one path, no one science, no eternal unchangeable laws.

Happiness is essentially a product of a certain inner consciousness, which perceives everything in the externally manifested world. It is not what happens to us in life that determines our happiness so much as the way we react to what happens.

And to this Abraham Lincoln once said, “Most people are about as happy as they make up their minds to be.”

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       COLOUR YOURSELF HEALTHY WITH FRUITS !

Now scientists are saying ,”An Apple A Day Isn’t Enough !”  Yes, we are not eating enough fruits and vegetables. Scientific evidence has shown that the benefits of increased fruits and vegetables consumption is a significant measurement of one’s health and well-being.  The Food and Drug Administration’s dietary guidelines recommend three (3) to five (5) servings of vegetables and two (2) to four (4) servings of fruits a day. Some sources recommend more. So “an apple a day”  is  really not enough !

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              Flirting is more than the initiation of a relationship.  It is a way to keep it interesting and fun. Flirting is much more than just a bit of fun : it is a universal and essential aspect of human interaction. Like every other human activity, flirting is governed by a complex set of unwritten laws of etiquette. These rules dictate where, when, with whom and in what manner we flirt. We generally obey these unofficial laws instinctively, without being conscious of doing so. Flirting is a way of noticing someone, of conveying the fact that you find that person interesting and attractive.

If you are already in a relationship , your flirting days are not over ! You must continue to flirt with your loved one because other people will !  When you and your loved one have been together for a while, it’s easy to take one another for granted and fail to send those signals. Flirting with your loved one is a kind of insurance against relationship problems like boredom and resentment.  Naturally , you want to be Numero Uno in every way, so keep up your flirtations, stays together.

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Everybody knows Jackie Chan as the successor to the legendary  kung-fu screen hero Bruce Lee.  Jackie Chan is now also a world-wide stardom. But how many of us know his story and how he became so rich ?  This is his story…..

Long long time ago…..

Chan was born on 7th. April ,1954 as Chan Kong Sang . Later in his life he changed his name to Fong Si Lung, taking on his father’s original surname of Fung. His parents were not rich and in fact they , his father Charles and his mother Lee-Lee Chan, did not have enough money to pay for the medical expenses during her pregnancy. It was thus reported that  Chan stayed in his mother’s womb for 12 months and had had to be caesarean born.  His parents had to borrow money from friends to pay for the operation expenses.  It was said  that the doctor who operated on his mother had offered to take the child in lieu of the payment  and was of course refused by the parents as it was their first born son. At birth Chan weighed a solid 12 pounds and because he was such a cute and bumpy child always rolling around, his parents called him Pao Pao meaning Cannonball.

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Increasingly, research indicates the road to wellness may be paved with phytonutrients. The No.1 reason we love phytonutrients is because of their powerful antioxidant properties. Different phytonutrients will act on the body in different ways, and different fruits and vegetables are diverse in their blend of various compounds.

You don’t always eat the recommended amount of fruits and vegetables every day , do you ? Eating the right foods in the correct portions all the time can be expensive , time consuming and , let’s face it , inconvenient. But whine though we may, the fact remains that this tier of the food pyramid is extremely important. What is it about fruits and vegetables that make them so advantageous to our health ?

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FLIRTING  is an art.  It can help you to meet people and make a lasting impression on them. Have you always wanted to be a social bee or butterfly ,outgoing and unafraid of interacting with the opposite sex ? The art of flirting will reinforce your strategies on how to meet people ,with amusing ways of attracting the attention of that “interesting someone” or that someone would want eagerly to meet you.

If you know the art of flirting , you will discover all of the benefits it will bring to your life as a confident and  self-fulling single person. The art of flirting will give you the added confidence and positive self-image that will help you attract the right attention that you are looking for !  Some of you may call flirting as a social game , so be it.  Flirting is not sinful and should be regarded as a common social behaviour in which you look forward to social events instead of being apprehensive about these social courtship ! [Read more →]

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“Happiness is not about money but society that is engaged “                  -Prof  Ed. Diener

Is it the government’s job to make people happy ?

Those who demur would argue that happiness is within you. But Professor Ed. Diener ,the happiness guru, thinks that the argument that happiness is within oneself has been “over-emphasised “. He said that “It is also within a society and city ……and that leaders should foster happiness”

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The BILL GATES Story !

  Long long time ago ………

Bill Gates was born in 1955.  Early in life Bill Gates inherited the ambition , intelligence, the competitive and opportunistic spirit , that had helped him to rise to become the richest man in the world . 

In elementary school he was so good in his maths and science surpassing all of his peers. His parents recognising his learning talents , enrolled him in Lakeside, a private school known for its intense academic environment.  At Lakeside , Bill Gates was first introduced to computers. This had had a far reaching effects on his life.  In 1968, the Lakeside prep school , decided then that it should acquaint the student body with the world of computers.

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Born on the 6th

If your birthday is on the sixth (6th) of any month,  you are the home lover and you need companionship , love and encouragement to give of your best.  Under adverse conditions youngsters born under this number can get into considerable trouble and lose their confidence.  Praise and appreciation are essential to your happiness, for you need companionship , love  approval , and are miserable if criticized.

You are rooted in the community and you must assume responsibilities in the community for you are an idealist and an improver of conditions in whatever capacity you find yourself.  You are sometimes inclined to be  stubborn and argumentative . You are a perfectionist , and are always looking for your ideal which you seldom find.

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Since social customs and traditions vary in different countries our Chinese table etiquette is entirely different from that of the West. It is regrettably true that we lack some of the niceties and refinements of Western table manners; still , in the past thousand years the Chinese have developed a multitude of conventions which are concerned with the matter of eating - the Happy Way.  The important thing is that the atmosphere should make every body feel happy and at ease,because things are going on as they should .There is an old Chinese saying that goes something like this ; “Eating food is above all Heavenly Laws.”  Nobody should deprive another from eating , not even the Heavenly Emperor for that matter.

Dinning in the Chinese way, the dishes are never passed around  unlike their Western host.  Chinese dishes are best when they are served hot . That is why hot soup , hot noodles , hot congee, etc.  are best sucked in with as noisily as possible although this is not a  pleasant act in the eyes of our western friends

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